If someone was to come across a puppy, and this dog was supposed to jump up and down, which makes it clear he was happy to see them, there would be no reason for them to wonder what was going on. This is a result of the fact that this just what dogs are like; they do not need a reason to be warm and responsive.
However, if they were to encounter another human being who behaved in this way, there will probably be a reason for this. Now, there is always the chance that this person is a close friend.
Therefore, the reason why they have behaved in this way is because they know who they are and they value them as a person.
When they met one for the first time, they might have been polite but they may not have been as favorable as they are now. It may then be said that one had to earn the other persons trust and respect before they could be treated this way.
The Main Difference
One way of looking at this would be to say that human beings need to be more discerning which dogs. If they were to simply embrace everybody in the same way and allowed anyone in their life, it would lead to problems.
This doesn’t imply that they can’t be polite, however, what it comes down to is that in order for them to look after their own health they need to learn what someone is like. Additionally, dogs are generally determined by human beings for their own survival, whereas human beings are not dependent normally.
Bearing this in mind, if someone was to come across another person who not only made it crystal clear that they were drawn to them, but was practically all over them, it could show that something is not right.
The other person is not likely to know a great deal about them, yet they will act as though they’re in love with them. It can be as if they have been in a relationship for a number of months even though they have only just met.
From The Outside
If another person was to catch a glimpse of what is occurring, they may believe that both of these people are now together.
One of them will be laid back; whereas the other will have a better attachment.
A Level Head
If one was to come across someone who behaved in this fashion, they might find a sense that something is not right. They might not be able to pinpoint exactly why this is, however, what will be clear is they feel uncomfortable.
Being around someone who is touchy-feely and that gives them a lot of positive feedback may be pleasant, but it won’t sit right with them. This can then show is that they are rather secure within themselves.
For one thing, they won’t have got this kind of behaviour, and, as another person won’t know a lot about them, there will be no reason for them to be so interested. If one was famous this type of behaviour would make more sense, as this person would have a better idea about who they are.
Even so, even if one had been in different films, for example, it still would not mean that another person would know what they are like as a person – outside the roles they have played. This would show is that they are projecting a lot on them, making it hard for them to connect to them as a real human being.
Someone in this way is then not likely to feel like a complete human being, and this is going to make them look toward certain individuals to complete them. Acting in a seductive manner is then likely to be a way for them to pull someone into their life, thereby allowing them to feel whole.
On the outside, then, they may look to be an adult, but deep down, they will probably feel like a needy child.
A Vulnerable Position
However, although someone who’s in a fantastic place is very likely to be repelled by someone like this, there are going to be others who aren’t. Consequently, if someone is in a low place and is feeling very needy, for whatever reason, they can wind up falling for this behaviour.
It can feel as if they’re the centre of the world at the beginning but, after a little while, another person could discard them and find somebody else. At one point they will be on one side of the emotional spectrum, feeling really good and even special, and, at the other, they’ll be on the other side, feeling really low and unworthy.
It might become clear that it was not that the other person actually liked themit was just that they needed someone to make them feel better. This person was not searching for love – and if they were, they would have taken the opportunity to get to know them.
This may have caused one to experience lots of pain, but on the plus side, they will know what to look for in the future. If this is something that has happened to them on more than 1 occasion, it might be a indication that they don’t feel whole and complete.
This may then mean is they should work through the pain that’s inside them, as this will let them realise that they are already whole and complete. The support of a therapist or a healer may be needed here.